Okay so at points in her life I got annoyed but I have never felt the way I do right now. I'm having to type this to restrain myself from picking up her phone and smashing it into tiny little pieces (purely because I know this would hurt her most). I'm wondering if I'm going crazy... She is constantly obnoxious, she swears, she's worse than she was as a toddler. People tell me I must have done something wrong. She says she has no friends, she says everybody hates her, she hits me, she hits her friends, she goes to a psychiatrist for issues she apparently has, stress related ones... She was sent there by her guidance counsellor but it's rubbish, she has no issues except being an idiot. But no I'm a bad parent because I don't pander to her every word apparently. Well according to her and her friends and half her school. I'm so angry. Her attitude disgusts me, she cares nothing for anyone but herself. Have I done something horrificily wrong? I think I must have? Has anyone else gone through this.
I have 8 other children, one younger and the rest already past 16 and they have never been like this. I've parented her the same, I've tried to instill good values into her and I honestly don't know what to do anymore. She's horrible. She spat in my face today so I've taken all her priveleges off her but she still just sits there and scowls at me and won't move and she's so awful all the time. My husband doesn't help me, he's scared of her, actually scared of her...
What's wrong with me?
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