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how do i convince my dh that i aint cheating on him? he is incareated at the current point and soon to b released but he trips out sometimes n i have no clue what to do

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LindasueDa

Asked by LindasueDa at 10:45 PM on Mar. 26, 2011 in Relationships

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  • well. sometimes theres nothing you can do especially if hes in jail. hope someone comes along and can help you.
    Rachelxbby

    Answer by Rachelxbby at 10:47 PM on Mar. 26, 2011

  • Stay calm, if you are innocent don't worry about it. - reassure him. He is feeling a sense of no control being locked up & wondering about you and what you are doing, insecure, enough to make someone crazy if they let it.
    sarasmommy777

    Answer by sarasmommy777 at 10:49 PM on Mar. 26, 2011

  • i stay calm with him and try to let him know that i dont want anyone else. he just drives me nuts with it. he admits its that place and he has too much time to think bout stuff and thats whats causin it. i jus wish i could do somethin to ease his miind
    LindasueDa

    Comment by LindasueDa (original poster) at 10:55 PM on Mar. 26, 2011

  • When people are locked up then they have all the time in the world to create up stories in thier head plus they know that they are in there and cant do anything about what they think could be going on. All you can really do is keep telling him how much you love him and that you care to much about him and your family to ever do anything like that. And when he gets out he will see for himself that you were being true to him. It might take him some time but he will realize your telling the truth. Good luck to you.
    michelle.coppes

    Answer by michelle.coppes at 11:01 PM on Mar. 26, 2011

  • There's nothing that you can do about that. He will need counciling to help him deal with coming back out into society.
    stitchintime

    Answer by stitchintime at 6:18 AM on Mar. 27, 2011

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