My husband and I have two children. He wants a third, like now! I honestly don't want anymore, I had 2 rough pregnancies and my body just doesn't handle it well. I don't enjoy it and unfortunately I'm not a woman who can embrace her "mom bod". Even after losing the baby weight I just feel extremely self concious and I hate it. I know he really wants a third child so I am willing to have another if that's what's meant to be. I just want to wait...how long, I don't know. He's in the Army with 4.5 years left on his contract and very likely getting out. He says he doesn't want to have a child in diapers at that point, and has made some other good points..like I could have the baby soon and then get started on my career rather than having to put it on hold.
I love my children and I love that I have been here for all my daughter's firsts, but I get so bored being a SAHM and I feel like my contributions aren't enough for our family.
SO, just given this information, would you rather wait, or try sooner?
P.S. Thanks for reading this, I know its a bit long
Asked by Anonymous at 11:51 PM on Mar. 26, 2011 in Relationships
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