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Pre wedding jidders

how do you tell the difference between pre wedding jitters and the feeling that this really isn't what you want?

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TiffanieK

Asked by TiffanieK at 3:59 AM on Mar. 27, 2011 in Relationships

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  • It's probably pretty hard to tell. Have you been looking for ward to it for a long time and all of a sudden you feel like this?
    stitchintime

    Answer by stitchintime at 6:32 AM on Mar. 27, 2011

  • Ask yourself a few questions,,, Do you love this person with all your heart? Do wanna spend the rest of your life with" this" person, only? Do you feel he loves you the same way and has your best interest at heart?Does he make you happy? I think most people are a little scared to "Take The Big Plunge" but if you know you truly love him with all your heart and he feels the same way, I'd say a lot of it is Jitters! Best of luck and happiness!

    anichols1

    Answer by anichols1 at 7:29 AM on Mar. 27, 2011

  • Along with the questions above have you discussed how money will be handled? Is one of you a big spender and the other not? Are you going into this marriage with big debt and agree how it will be handled? Have you talked about the number of children you want? Are you on the same page about discipline? Are you on the same page as far as sex goes......how important it is to you, compatible desires? These are the topics we discussed in out pre marital counseling (along with religion) and a few couples decided against getting married after the classes. Just ideas.......I wish you all the best.
    elizabr

    Answer by elizabr at 10:13 AM on Mar. 27, 2011

  • don't know still figuring that one out bhahahahaha
    tirelessefforts

    Answer by tirelessefforts at 11:25 AM on Mar. 27, 2011

  • Think about it this way, imagine you are back to whenever you started planning your wedding, nothing had been paid for, no one had been invited, would you still want to marry him?
    JLS2388

    Answer by JLS2388 at 2:13 PM on Mar. 27, 2011

  • You don't. They are too much the same feeling.
    rosetoes

    Answer by rosetoes at 2:35 PM on Mar. 27, 2011

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