Dh and I are moving up North soon. We are moving to be closer to his children. I am VERY excited about this move, but my MOTHER is making me feel so flippin uneasy, and aggravated!
She keeps telling me that the only reason my husband wants to move back home is so he can be closer to his ex. WTH??!! No he isnt. She says that ALL men go back to their childrens mother. She says that he is going to drag me all the way up North, and dump me to be with his kids mother. I am VERY secure in my marriage, but now her words are getting into my head.
What if he does decide to leave me for her? Then what? I mean he obviously married ME for a reason, and we are very happy together... why on earth would he leave me for his ex?
Maybe he will miss having that family unit???- Now I am beginning to intimidate myself... I dont know how to shake off my nerves, or my mothers words.... !!!
Have any of you ladies gone through this??!!
Answer by Liamsmom09 at 11:54 AM on Mar. 27, 2011
Answer by wheresthewayout at 11:55 AM on Mar. 27, 2011
Answer by wheresthewayout at 11:56 AM on Mar. 27, 2011
Answer by gammie at 11:57 AM on Mar. 27, 2011
Answer by ImaginationMama at 11:59 AM on Mar. 27, 2011
Answer by joanie70 at 12:00 PM on Mar. 27, 2011
Answer by DesignerMom0801 at 12:44 PM on Mar. 27, 2011
Answer by dusty1962 at 12:59 PM on Mar. 27, 2011
Lord knows I also cannot ever shake my mothers words, ever, either. Consider her words and live your life.
Answer by rosetoes at 2:26 PM on Mar. 27, 2011
Answer by notjstasocermom at 2:53 PM on Mar. 27, 2011