My dd is ten now, but her bio dad has never really been in her life. The last time she say him she was two. He doesn't pay his child support(But thats beside the point). She is adhd(just like him), so raising her has not been that easy. She throws thing, hits me, and tells me all the time that she doesn't love me. I know right really hard to hear.
Everyone told me that when she got a bit older, that she would want to meet him. When she was youger she never really cared if he was around or not, so me and her went on with our lifes. I remarried and my dh tries to be there for her but she pusses him awat or he is having a hard time being a dad to a child thats not his. Idk. Now that she is getting older she keedps telling me she wants to know her bio dad. I don't want to deniy her the chance to get to know him, but I don't know if thats what he wants too. Yea it has been eight years later but when she was two he told me he didn't want anything to do with her, so he won't have to deal with me. But this is not about me at all. It is about whats best my my dd. Becouse it has been eight years and no contact at all, I also have no idea where he is or how to find him, so I really don't know if I should let her see him and if I do how would I even find him. Childsupport has no clue where hes at eather.
Answer by ReReJohnson at 5:18 PM on Mar. 28, 2011
Answer by mommyredrose23 at 8:19 PM on Mar. 29, 2011