She has played her father against me since she was 7 yrs old. She and I would be alone and get along fine but when her father came home she would start with crying and fake tears. Recently she admitted to it but it has caused several years of stress in our marriage. Just last year she asked me why won't I just leave her and her father alone. I am tired and my marriage is on the rocks please helpAnswer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 5:33 PM on Mar. 27, 2011 in Tweens (9-12)
Answer by samurai_chica at 5:49 PM on Mar. 27, 2011
My stepdaughter tried stuff too. She was married and had a family. She told my dh that he couldnt see the grandchildren unless he left me. He told her that was not going to happen. My advice is if you want to stay with this man fight back with niceness. When ever your with her be as sweet as you can be even when you want to pinch off her head. When your dh is there be even sweeter. Never fight with her it will only backfire on you. If she acts up and lies act very confused and tell him you have no idea what she is talking about, tell him maybe he should spend some time alone with her. Tell him to take her on a father daughter date. Try to do fun family things and laugh a lot even when you dont feel like it. Tell her how much you care about her when your alone and when dh is there. If he says anything about her lies ask him what you should do to make her happer. It worked for me.
Answer by god4gives at 6:30 PM on Mar. 27, 2011
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