My DH and I have been married for 3 years. He has 3 kids and i have 3 and we have very different views on parenting. It seems we disagree and argue over EVERYTHING. When I try to talk to him, it immediately leads to an arguement no matter how I choose my words. We've been to counseling and it helps for a very short time then we are back in the same boat. I think he is very selfish and really does not care about what is important to me. When issues arise, we will go several days w/o talking then the issue is just sept under the rug like it never happened. I don't usually bring it up again b/c it only leads to another argument.
I also know his kids do not like me b/c I am always the "bad" guy bringing up issues like chores and laundry. Any advice?
Answer by Kimebs at 1:03 AM on Nov. 27, 2008
Answer by plylerjones at 10:11 AM on Nov. 27, 2008