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What should I do?

I have been talking to a guy recently that is an absolute sweetheart...or so he seems so far...i am 22, hes 27 hes divorced and ive never been married...i have one kid he has none...we have only been on one date but have been talking for 3 weeks...the date went well, opened doors for me, didnt try anything, gave me a quick peck kiss goodnight...its just he has two jobs and goes to college...so he doesnt have a lot of free time...he stopped by my work one night a week or so after our date and said he was going to get something to eat and wanted to know if i wanted anything n that hed bring it by for me...i dont know whether or not i should be patient and continue talking to him or just move on and realize its just bad timing right now...i really do like him and ive been hurt so much that im worried i might miss out on a really good guy if i just move on...what should i do?

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KayleesMommy89

Asked by KayleesMommy89 at 1:24 AM on Mar. 28, 2011 in Relationships

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  • awwww, seems like he's sincere. Give him the chance..... he is going to school and working 2 jobs.... and still finds time to pop in on you and call you. Which means you are on his mind!!!!!! hang in there and see where it takes you. the slower process means you make a bond of friendship, trust, honesty first. and that dear means a stronger more lasting love commitment that is solid. its the best feeling in the world to have
    kkbird

    Answer by kkbird at 1:33 AM on Mar. 28, 2011

  • So you are going to pass on him because he is working his tail off and trying to finish school? That is not a good reason. He sounds like he is interested and thoughtful...stick with it and see what happens, unless you are not interested in him. If you have been hurt in the past, then taking it slow can be beneficial!
    spottedpony

    Answer by spottedpony at 1:46 AM on Mar. 28, 2011

  • WAIT.........................
    BECAREFUL...........

    Date for a while, he sounds like he has a good future.
    Let him go to school, work and just see what happens..

    No need to rush into anything .
    SissyAnn141

    Answer by SissyAnn141 at 1:54 AM on Mar. 28, 2011

  • now that you put it that way, spottedpony, i sound shallow....but i really didnt mean it like that...i meant its just really hard to be talking to someone and barely see them...i understand hes a hard worker, i am really proud of him and respect him highly for it...and he also said something the other day that was cute but started out with "the person your with" talking about himself....does he think we r together? cuz last time i checked, i didnt think one date meant boyfriend/girlfriend....and weve tried to make plans to go out again but one time he had to work on his homework then hopefully we could go out n then he had work...well, he ended up sleeping in until almost noon then went to work at 3 so needless to say we didnt go out...and i understand he deserved to sleep in for once...but i also just feel like he doesnt have enough time for me, so idk...
    KayleesMommy89

    Comment by KayleesMommy89 (original poster) at 1:58 AM on Mar. 28, 2011

  • Give him a chance..
    smiley745

    Answer by smiley745 at 7:12 AM on Mar. 28, 2011

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