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What should I do with sil today? She is flying in from another vacation and no one has told me she was away, except my husband.

I live next door to her but was also away. So I asked who was picking her up and of course my chauffeur husband is... So the question is should I just play it off and and go about my own business? I mean not even my mil has told me about her trip. This is silly how she leads this secretive single life....Any advice?


Asked by Anonymous at 12:02 PM on Mar. 28, 2011 in Relationships

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  • "Hey sis, how was the trip? Where'd you go? I sure would have liked to know when you had left so I could have said 'see ya later'." etc

    Keep it casual/friendly if you do end up chatting with her about it ;)

    Answer by hopeandglory53 at 12:11 PM on Mar. 28, 2011

  • leave it.. let her have her fun..

    Answer by zoejains_momma at 12:04 PM on Mar. 28, 2011

  • Leave it alone, I try to stay out of my in-laws lives as much as possible.

    Answer by scout_mom at 12:05 PM on Mar. 28, 2011

  • what makes u so concerned with the SIL???? I mean isnt she grown????

    Answer by kkbird at 12:06 PM on Mar. 28, 2011

  • If she lives next door to you, then it shouldn't effect your day. You only have to entertain for out-of-towners. If you arte asking whether or not you should say something . . . . I wouldn't. If she were you child, it would be different, but just a SIL . . . . she doesn't have an obligation to check in as to her whereabouts.

    Answer by Anonymous at 12:07 PM on Mar. 28, 2011

  • so I guess that goes for me too! I do not need to check in. What is good for the goose is most definitely good for the gander...

    Comment by Anonymous (original poster) at 12:08 PM on Mar. 28, 2011

  • sounds like great advice hopeand glory

    Comment by Anonymous (original poster) at 12:12 PM on Mar. 28, 2011