This weekend was my step son's 14th b-day. He told us he wanted to invite several friends over, we said fine with us. So on Friday, I got home and he had 3 boys over and 2 girls. Well, 8 and 9 pm roll by and everyone leaves but one boy(we knew he was staying the night) and the 2 girls, and at about 9:30, the girls changed into their pajamas,a nd my husband and I were kinda dumbstruck, we were thinking how inappropriate for these girls to think they can hang out in pj's at our house with our teenage son. Well, 10:30 pm comes and goes ant the girls were still here, finally we call our son out of his room, which they had been in all day long with the door closed, and asked what's up with the girls and he just says "oh, they are staying the night" We were like"like hell, they are, they need to call their parents right now" So he goes back into his room, comes out like 2 minutes later and says, "their parents are sleeping" so I go in there and talk to the girls and come to find out, they hadn't even called yet, he came out and bold faced lied to his father and me. So they got picked up and my husband says his grounding starts on Monday, I'm like"really?" so you see how my husband deals with things.... oh also, he waited so late to find out what was going on because he didn't want to "embarrass" his son. Anyways, the girls told me, they had spent the night with him before at his mom's ex boyfriend's house, and when his dad confronted himon that, he lied again, like lie #3. Then when son and dad talk about this alone, my step son says "why does Brandy even have a say in this? I have a mom". Then a few hours later as the audacity to tell me he needs his baseball uniform cleaned for tomorrow.
I feel like I shouldn't clean or cook for him, since "he has a mom", but I know that will not improve the situation, I guess I'm looking for support or ideas on how to deal with his new attitude.
And his mom is horrible, she was sleeping with and giving bj's 13-16 yr olds when her daughters brought them home as their friends, so we gets NO help from her, she thinks this is all "cool", and she married my hubs when he was 17 and she was 34....... eeeewwwww...... so, her influence is not good, she has drug him around to 3 boyfriend's houses in the past year because she meets them and tries to move in immediately and when she doesn't have a BF that will let her move in, she lives with her daughter that married one of the guys she cheated on my husband with, so you see how messed up this kids values and morals must be???
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