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Has your SO not eating food because it was made by a certain race?

My hubby will not eat my nephews wife's cooking because she is white. He says that white people can't cook black food. So for Thanksgiving he is eating tuna sandwhiches. I have never heard such stupid shit in all my life. Now he has a friend that claims she is part Mexican and because of that he will eat her food, and he will eat Amish food. He is not making any damn sense and he is really pissing me off!!

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Asked by NadiasMommy427 at 3:07 PM on Nov. 27, 2008 in Food & Drink

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  • Wow, your hubby sounds like a real catch. No really he sounds like a racist asshole. I'd leave his sorry butt at home before I would let him hurt some one's feelings with his racist BS.


    Answer by Forget-me-not at 3:14 PM on Nov. 27, 2008

  • that is horrible my bf is a lil racist but nothing like that he don't care what race u r as long as the foods good lol but what an aZZ i wouldn't take him 2 other ppls house for a meal and have him act like that

    Answer by butterscotch297 at 3:19 PM on Nov. 27, 2008

  • wow... i wouldn't take him to eat anywhere. sorry.. if only he knew if he went out to eat at a resturant there are mixed ppl back there from all over. like at cracker barrell we had everyone one back there. so you never knew who cooked your food. i won't let him imbarres me at my familys house either.

    Answer by mama2twins07 at 3:37 PM on Nov. 27, 2008

  • wow. what a damn racist. send me his damn ass to my home and ill show him some damn white cooking.

    serious.. what an idiot.

    Answer by m.robertson811 at 3:49 PM on Nov. 27, 2008

  • wonder who handled the tuna fish!

    Answer by Jennifer875 at 5:43 PM on Nov. 27, 2008

  • Wow, I'm white and I will admit that I am not always the best at making foods from different cultures, at least not the first time I make them. My Japanese MIL tells me I make "Americanized Japanese" and tries to show me black girlfriend tells me to give up on soul food, my Mexican friends just tell me to bring something "white" and let them handle the mexican. While I might not be the best at cooking all kinds of different foods, I've NEVER had someone sit there pouting and refusing to eat my food because I'm white and don't make it right. That is just racist and crazy.

    Answer by kabbot01 at 8:35 PM on Nov. 27, 2008

  • Why doesn't your SO offer to bring an ethnic dish HE made all by himself?!

    Answer by LoriKeet at 11:26 PM on Nov. 27, 2008

  • Let him eat tuna. He'll either learn to love that or get over himself.

    Answer by gdiamante at 4:36 AM on Nov. 28, 2008

  • Sorry you have to deal with him, and that attitude. Seriously, there are good and bad cooks in all races! I can understand not liking a certain kind of ethnic food, grandfather cannot stand chinese food, but that does not mean he has an issue with Asians!

    I am white....and between my father's family being New Orleans' Cajuns with my father having owned several (wonderful) seafood restaurants and my mother's family being Mississippi country-folk who really know how to do southern cooking (in fact, very similar to soul food!)....I could show him a thing or two about how white people can cook, LOL!

    Answer by catholicmamamia at 10:45 AM on Nov. 28, 2008

  • tell him to trace back his roots....he would be surprised what he finds I would not be surprised if he finds white in him ...


    Answer by Anonymous at 1:32 PM on Nov. 28, 2008

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