I have a 4 year old turning 5 this year in November. His father and I seperated a while back now and as of yesterday caught me by HUGE suprise when he told myself and my mom that he is bullied at his "dads school" (he attends pre school when with me and a play group when with his father, as of right now he spends a week with me a week with his father) I asked him what he did when the kids were mean to him and he told me they push him in the snow and they call him fatty (he is 4 years old and weighs 40lbs) I asked if he told his dad and he said "yes daddy came and told them to stop and they are nice to me now" I gave the ex credit for it and spoke to him about this "issue" when my son was not present and my ex informed me that our son tells him the same thing only about my school. Both of us communicate with the teachers regularly and I have attended on our sons "special days" at school to see that the kids adore him as does the teacher. My only Q now is this......how do you handle this when it is so damn funny that he plays us for fools and thinks we do not communicate?
I know it is not good to think of it as funny but i must admit I am a little proud of the little bugger to be able to think something like this up........
Answer by Kimedbs at 4:38 PM on Mar. 28, 2011
Answer by ReReJohnson at 5:09 PM on Mar. 28, 2011
Answer by Mom-2-3-Girlz at 6:52 PM on Mar. 28, 2011
Answer by motherof33333 at 8:49 AM on Mar. 29, 2011