Hi biggest issue is my low drive for him. I admit, it is low, dn't why, I can only think of my birth control. I try to explain to him why it could be, but he just won't try to understaned, told him numerous times. Wherevere we go, he is always touching or groping me in some way. I get tired of it. Even with our kids there. Now, its almost a turn off for me. Then he gets mad or upset, and he'll start saying I don't have a drive for anymore, and I'll probably have a better sex drive with someone else. It's seems he basing our relationship on this only, and that don't give me much confidence. I look at other things like spending time with the kids, or my family is fullfilling. But not him, I understand I need to help with his particular concern too, but its very hard for me. And his drinking, he likes to drink, me, occasionally. He really wants me too, and when I don't want too, he somehow makes it me feel bad. He just like s to make me feel bad, when he doesnt get what he wants.Answer Question
Answer by ReReJohnson at 5:26 PM on Mar. 28, 2011
I honestly know how you feel,sounds like my situation exactly! I don't know how old you are but I'm assuming my problem is partially my age (42) and the fact that I have low self esteem/ body image! I never really had a super sex drive and after having 2 kids... well, lets just say it's non existent! My husband as well likes to drink and it's a major turn off! I hear all the comments too like "If you were with someone else, You'd be all over them etc, etc. You said family is fulfilling to you, same here. I do try to see his point and do things for him even though I don't feel like it but that is difficult. I think men are just very sexual beings, at least that's all I've ever experienced. Wish I could give you some good advise like seek counseling or maybe I should do the same? We've been married 12 yrs, now and I still hear about it all the time, ugh!
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