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Does DH/SO "ask" or "tell"?

Does your DH/SO "ask" you to do things for him or does he "tell" you to do something?

I sometimes get mad when Rich "tells" me to do something.....I need him to put it in the form of a

How does your spouse "ask" you to do things? Does it irritate you when it seems like he's "telling" you what to do?


Asked by Lucky209 at 5:59 PM on Mar. 28, 2011 in Relationships

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Answers (15)
  • he always asks.. he would lose a limb if he tried to tell me to do anything

    Answer by zperez0809 at 6:02 PM on Mar. 28, 2011

  • My husband always asks me.

    Answer by Mom1127-0125 at 6:00 PM on Mar. 28, 2011

  • He always asks. It wouldn't go over well if he didn't.

    Answer by Brandi300 at 6:01 PM on Mar. 28, 2011

  • He respects me enough to ask.

    Answer by tiddliwinks at 6:03 PM on Mar. 28, 2011

  • He will "tell" me when he is playing around, but he always asks.

    Answer by michelle.coppes at 6:04 PM on Mar. 28, 2011

  • Mainly he asks but when he is joking he 'tells' me... haha... not too funny...good thing I don't take him seriously...

    Answer by Autumn07 at 6:12 PM on Mar. 28, 2011

  • he asks.

    Answer by ItsMe89 at 6:13 PM on Mar. 28, 2011

  • He will ask me.

    Answer by eluc at 6:14 PM on Mar. 28, 2011

  • ask. If he told me I'd probably tell him off! lol

    Answer by butterflyblue19 at 6:23 PM on Mar. 28, 2011

  • when he tells me to do something i just sit on my butt until he asks i told him before i dont follow 'demands'

    Answer by goobersmom713 at 6:24 PM on Mar. 28, 2011