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Why is it that groups that advertis as "no drama" are actually the most dramatic?

I don't get it. People get mad at a group for one reason or another. Branch off and make their own group, then advertise as "no drama", when they are the ones causing all the trouble in the first place and they don't even see that it's them! I notice that groups that say that are usually the ones that have the most trouble makers.

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Asked by lowencope at 7:39 PM on Mar. 28, 2011 in About CafeMom

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  • Well, I think you answered your own question right in the post! It's because they don't see that they're the ones who are stirring it up. Drama queens usually like to point the finger at everyone else, while they play the part of the pitiful persecuted martyr.
    At least the ones in the "bitch groups" know they're immature assholes.

    Answer by vicesix at 7:41 PM on Mar. 28, 2011

  • Anyone who has to advertise the fact that they are drama free are the opposite for sure.....The rest of us who are just having regular conversations aren't sitting here advertising the fact that we dont start drama... its just like people who have to tell others what a great person they are... if people pay any kind of attention they will see these things for themselves. .

    Answer by kaitilala at 7:45 PM on Mar. 28, 2011

  • If you have to say you aren't , you probably

    Answer by Musicmom80 at 7:58 PM on Mar. 28, 2011

  • And dare say anything about it, then you’ll get kicked off the group.  Rolleyes


    Answer by musicmom08 at 8:02 PM on Mar. 28, 2011

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