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How much time does your husband/S.O. spend with friends?

I'm just starting to get upset about him having his friends over all the time. We agreed to once a week but now its turning into more. I just feel fed up already.

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Asked by Anonymous at 8:16 PM on Mar. 28, 2011 in Relationships

Answers (15)
  • He never goes out or shares time with friends without me, it has always been his way.

    Answer by older at 8:18 PM on Mar. 28, 2011

  • zero time. not on a regular basis anyways. he may call his friend over if he needs help with a car ..maybe once a month or so. if that. i know how you feel though. my ex would have his friend over every single night...if he wasnt at our house then he would be with him..he would even spend weedends with him and not bother calling me. would even show up till late sunday night. so glad i got me a family man.

    Answer by shay1130 at 8:21 PM on Mar. 28, 2011

  • It's really rare, and I wish he would more. I think some time would be good for him, maybe once a month or more. But he's a homebody, whereas I'm the outgoing one.

    Answer by musicpisces at 8:23 PM on Mar. 28, 2011

  • He's disabled now and spends lots of time home alone while I'm at work and the boys are in school. I'm always glad to hear that one of his friends came over and spent a couple of hours with him. It very rarely happens in the evening during our family time.

    Answer by meooma at 8:25 PM on Mar. 28, 2011

  • A lot. It got to the point where I have to schedule a day if I want us to have family time. Ugh.

    Answer by Kword at 8:29 PM on Mar. 28, 2011

  • Pretty much never. Of course, travelling around the country pretty much nonstop kind of prohibits that. He does talk to them on the phone now and then but not very often. Mostly, he talks to me on the phone, and hangs out with me and the kids when he's home. I wouldn't care if he did want to hang out with his friends, so long as I still got time with him.

    Answer by wendythewriter at 8:31 PM on Mar. 28, 2011

  • He doesn't unless I am with him. We do everything together. The friends that we have usually come over to our house and bring their kids. The kids have their play time and we talk and hang out as the kids play.

    Answer by worriedmommy600 at 8:32 PM on Mar. 28, 2011

  • me and df is at his friends house pretty much every day..well not today.. i didnt feel like going anywhere and he's not home

    Answer by proudmommy690 at 8:48 PM on Mar. 28, 2011

  • I can honestly say i wish he would hang out with his friends more. he hangs out on b days and boxing fights and maybe fishing 5 times a year lol hes a homebody i love that he likes to be around me but i feel bored for him sometimes.

    Answer by whitenena at 10:44 PM on Mar. 28, 2011

  • Never. I like it that way but I didn't choose it. He's just a family guy:)

    Answer by JackieGirl007 at 11:13 PM on Mar. 28, 2011

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