My birthday is this Saturday. I will be turning 25. I don't really want or need anything but every year my husband never really does anything for me. I always at least make him a cake and get him a card. We don't make huge deals out of holidays or special occasions, but I would be more likely to go all out for him if he would do it for me in return...
Today is Monday, and my husband has not mentioned that my bday is coming up or indicated that he has rememberd it in any way. My father in law's bday is today and I had to tell my husband to call him. He asked "Why" and I said "......because it's his birthday......", husband said, "Oh....really???"
So do I:
a) drop a hint that my bday is Saturday and help him out a little
b) say not a word and see if he remembers...knowing he probably wont...and get my feelings hurt on Saturday for him not remembering
Answer by gwen20 at 1:12 AM on Mar. 29, 2011
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Answer by cfh72 at 7:09 AM on Mar. 29, 2011
I've posted this question in several of my groups and everyone is telling me to drop hints. Yes, I think tomorrow I will say to him "soooo...saturday.....my birthday......hmm....i like flowers, flowers are pretty....and cake, cake is yummy..." lol
I'm glad to hear it. If he's anything like my sweet, yet forgetful husband he'll be very happy you reminded him early enough to do something special for you. Happy Birthday!
Answer by Eek_a_Geek at 9:27 AM on Mar. 29, 2011