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I hate double standards and liars how to handle such people

Any ideas to effectively handle such people?

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Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 5:52 AM on Mar. 29, 2011 in Relationships

Answers (16)
  • Don't be around them works.
    louise2

    Answer by louise2 at 6:00 AM on Mar. 29, 2011

  • avoid them!
    linah12345

    Answer by linah12345 at 6:00 AM on Mar. 29, 2011

  • dont choose to associate wtih them
    Satiblue

    Answer by Satiblue at 6:25 AM on Mar. 29, 2011

  • I've never been able to 'handle' people. What works best, and for me better, is to avoid them. You won't be able to change them or how they behave so don't waste your time or your breath.
    meooma

    Answer by meooma at 6:35 AM on Mar. 29, 2011

  • just do your best to steer clear of them. my son is a compulsive liar and i just don't know what to do with him about it anymore.
    MommaFossil

    Answer by MommaFossil at 7:39 AM on Mar. 29, 2011

  • Raise the bar and stay away from them
    gemgem

    Answer by gemgem at 7:42 AM on Mar. 29, 2011

  • Obviously, avoiding them is the best option. However, if they're unavoidable, just let the crap they're spewing go in one ear and straight out the other. I have quite a few family members like that and I just roll my eyes at the crap they say. If it doesn't involve/affect me..I'm not going to stress over it.
    paper_clip

    Answer by paper_clip at 8:14 AM on Mar. 29, 2011

  • I cut toxic people from my life.
    tiddliwinks

    Answer by tiddliwinks at 8:17 AM on Mar. 29, 2011

  • take these people out of your life if u cant avoid them as much as possible
    good luck
    cnoble927

    Answer by cnoble927 at 8:23 AM on Mar. 29, 2011

  • Let them know you rather not deal with them because you know how much they stretch the truth and make it your business to stay away from them. Misery loves company if you know they have a problem don't make their problem your problem.
    Mudda69

    Answer by Mudda69 at 8:25 AM on Mar. 29, 2011

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