Ok so I have always been a bigger woman. Not huge by any means but ever since I hit my teens I was never skinny. I've done the up and down thing and recently started losing a little. I am happy about this and would like to lose about 20 more. Right now I am 5'1 and about 150. My heaviest was 240 about 4 years ago, and lightest ever was about 130-140. Anyways my dilemma is this, we all know that how you feel about yourself plays a huge part in your overall happiness in life. I don't feel I look bad for my age etc but since the extra weight is starting to come off, I wanna lose the rest. My SO on the other hand is not happy about this and I am a bit confused and I'll explain why. He has told me he is not into skinny women. He likes curves and always has been with more voluptuous woman such as myself. He noticed I have lost a little and told me very sternly that he does not want me losing anymore. My confusion comes from his comments or me having seen him looking at women who he thinks are hot. All these women are not really how I am built. They are closer to the 36-24-36 that a lot of men think are nice looking.
So my question is, why is he adamant about me not losing a little more? He always tells me I am hot and good looking as I am, but why would he strongly say he doesn't want me losing more?
If your SO has told you this, would you continue to lose the weight? I am kind of at a loss right now as to, do I or don't I? What would you do?
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