I have a friend who is separated from her husband. She has about 4 different guys she expresses interest in, and now has one that she has decided is the one for her. He's gone to jail, to prison, and doesn't pay his child support. He is with the mother of his child right now, about to go to jail and is telling my friend he wants to be with her when he gets out. I've listened to her talk about all this and bitten my tongue for a while now.
This morning, she was telling me some more stuff, and I just couldn't bite my tongue anymore, and I told her that I don't really agree with what she's doing. I told her I didn't want to hurt her, or tell her what to do, but that I think this guy is not the best for her or her son.
Now, she wants me to support her in what she's doing. My question is should I feel bad for telling her what I thought? And, should I support her in doing something that I so strongly disagree with? And if I should support her, how do I do that?
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