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Do you think men act diff when dating a single mother?

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RhiannonNewton

Asked by RhiannonNewton at 1:45 PM on Mar. 29, 2011 in Relationships

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  • Depends on the guy I suppose. Not ALL men are Dic%s but all men have the potential to be a Dic# at one time or another.
    vbruno

    Answer by vbruno at 1:46 PM on Mar. 29, 2011

  • I dont think they have much of a choice but to act differently. We have kids & no time for BS.
    gemgem

    Answer by gemgem at 1:48 PM on Mar. 29, 2011

  • I never had a guy act that different when I was a single mom. I mean, they were understanding that I couldn't go out as often or at certain times but I don't think they were that different with me. I think after they have dated a while, being included as part of the "family" can be a stabilizing influence on some men.
    missanc

    Answer by missanc at 1:48 PM on Mar. 29, 2011

  • Yes I think they do, and I'd hope so! I was a single mom for the first 2yrs of my dd's life- and dating as a single parent is very different than from single dating--- w/ everything from time factors, priorities, the sexual relationship, etc. I didn't have time for men who were used to dating single college girls my age, so they were more respectful and honest about intentions knowing that I was a single Mom. On the flip side, many men also assumed I just wanted ass since I was a single mom since I didn't want a "baby daddy". So there's no all or nothing, it depends.
    lexi8622

    Answer by lexi8622 at 2:02 PM on Mar. 29, 2011

  • Its the individual...
    smiley745

    Answer by smiley745 at 2:44 PM on Mar. 29, 2011

  • I'm not sure about that, but I do know that I definatly date differently now, I look for different things, I date different types of med, I'm not rushing into things, ect..
    gypsymama532

    Answer by gypsymama532 at 5:59 PM on Mar. 29, 2011

  • It depends on guy, but yeah I d assume they have to no last minute plans or drop ins -they adjust but thats good thing.
    raisingmen

    Answer by raisingmen at 10:25 PM on Mar. 29, 2011

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