Every once in a while I will post a status on my facebook like "Just made blueberry muffins! Yummy! Can't wait to eat them!" or "My wonderful hubby cleaned the bathroom for me :) I'm so lucky!" or something to explain my great mood for the day. I am a naturally upbeat person and love to share good news with others.
My friend "Stacy" married young, had three kids with her husband, and is now divorced and living with her parents. She has custody, but he gets visitation every week. She doesn't work, doesn't cook, doesn't clean, and loves to complain. Every status of HERS is something like "My kids are so out of control! I can't take them anywhere!" and "Why do I hate everything?"
Every time I post an upbeat status, she pounces on it. "I just made cookies for my wonderful husband" "Well aren't you just such a nice wife :( " "Going to the mall with baby to walk around" "Must be nice to have time to do stuff like that :( " I swear I am going to delete her as a friend. I am so sick of her acting like everything in my life is accidentally perfect, while hers is some horrible tragedy that isn't her fault. I married a wonderful man that I knew for years before we even dated, got married, had our son, and am pregnant with our daughter. She married the first guy with rich parents she found, had three kids, realized his parents weren't going to die for a really long time, divorced him, and is sucking the life out of her own parents now. We have been friends since we were little kids, and obviously were raised very differently. Our moms are friends, our dads are friends, our sisters anre friends, and our brothers are friends. Since she and I are the same age we were always thrown together as kids, and I am soooo done!!!! I'm leaving cafe mom and going to delete her right now......
For the record, the last time I actually saw her in person she accused me of lying of facebook to make my life look perfect, and kept asking me whether I live in Camelot or not. I considered dumping her then, but didn't. This last comment from today was the grand finale. I'm so freakin' done!! Anybody ever have to ditch a person like this?
Asked by Anonymous at 2:58 PM on Mar. 29, 2011 in Relationships
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