Ok so we all know I dont mesh well with my in laws were alll way diff! Well Andy has a 27 yr old sis with a almost 12 yr old daughter. Ever since I was preggo an we found out Lei was a girl we sensed some jelousy issues from his sister. She no longer was interested in my pregnancy, didnt come to the baby shower done at her house (she lives in the back of her moms house) didnt come to the hospital (in the same city and we were there for 5 days) has never bought her anything or as much as held her and her mom watches her daily..She acts like she doesnt exist! And I have heard comments such as Lei is fat, or Lei is late at this, or Lei will be uncofortable about her birthmark one day, that leilani doesnt do this an denise did that at that time or that im way too into my daughter. So we dont talk. We found out from another family member asking if we knew his sister was pregnant. Well she is due in August with her 2nd kid same guy. They were hoping for a boy and I was hoping for a boy because Lei is already neglected and I dont want all the competativness that I know she does and now is gonna do because she is having a girl.
Well yesterday (we dont ever text or talk for that matter) She text ITS A GIRL so send me all Leilanis stuff. I was baffled. We dont talk 1st of all, 2nd no please no appreciation but moreof a demand. And 3rd why would I want to give everything to her her whole wardrobe and accesorries, her swing, her bouncer, bathe, bumbo play matts, high chair, car seats ect. Her sis told me Jackys really excited since you have almost everything she needs. Im not trying to be mean but does she really expect me to just hand her over everything. I dont even know how to approach this!
Am I being petty and immature?
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