I was a DIL & I am keeping my son away from his grandmother. My husband killed himself when our son was 1 & over the last 10 years she has done nothing but created drama & turmoil for us. I have spent the last 10 yrs telling my son how great his daddy was, things he liked to do, etc. & she goes behind my back & tells him that it was my fault he did it, I have been dating someone for almost 2 yrs now & she tells my son that he doesn't have to do anything he asks that kind of crap. She has started this rumor that my neice is pregnant by my BF. Just a bunch of freaking BS. It all boils down to that her son is not here & she blames me for it. I can deal with her wanting to blame me for it, but don't put my son in the middle of this. I'm doing the best I can with what I have & my son to this point I feel is very good, smart, well rounded child. But everytime he comes home from her he is mean, out right nasty, defiant, etc. So for these reasons I have stopped him from going over there.
at 12:22 PM on Jul. 10, 2008