today of all days he told me that he didnt want to marry me. Know wonder why it has been 2 1/2 years that we have been engaged and nothing, I feel like im wasting my time on my SO if he doesnt want to get married we have a 1 yr old son and i just dont know what to do....stay or go? i dont see any reason to share my life with someone who no longer wants to share theirs with mine granted im 21 but ive been with him for 4 years im just baffeled right now. what would you do?Answer Question
Answer by NightOwlMama at 4:49 AM on Nov. 28, 2008
Answer by loulou332 at 6:57 AM on Nov. 28, 2008
I think theres more than just what you've said. Your both upset. There is so much going on that he may thinks its and easy way out from whatever is making him feel this way. Im so sorry its come at the worst time but until you don't explain more about what he has said and the truthful "whys" of his decision, its very difficult to give you a straight answer. All I can say is I have been through very tough times when it comes to my relationship with my ex-husband too. We are kind of back together unofficially. It's crazy. You have to be patient and keep the communication open now more than ever. It sucks but it wont be like this forever if you make wise and courageous decisions with cool calm thinking. When your ready, take a step back and try to keep your emotions aside, which is beyond tough, and look at the situation to see what is best for you .
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