my friends daughter(18 yrs) found out she was pregnant in december, iv talked to her and she told me what happened and it was a complete accident, she was on her last couple weeks of the birth control shot, her and her boyfriend used a condom but it ripped when she went in a week and a half later to get her shot again they said her hormone levels were high and to go back in a couple weeks to see if her levels were just high because she was coming off her shot, so she goes back december 6th and they give her another test and shes pregnant they give her an ultrasound and she was pregnant so she tells her dad (my co worker) and he's been really rude to her ever since then.....i text her to see how shes doing once or twice a week and every time i text her shes either sweeping and dusting or cleaning her bathroom and her bedroom....her dad tells her shes not doing ANYTHING but sitting on her ass all day she just posted this status on her facebook
"thanks dad....telling me I don't to anything....I guess me sweeping and dusting and putting the dishes away and keeping my bathroom and bedroom clean.....studying for the driving test and my GED...isn't enough for you..."
now before you say wheres her boyfriend why isnt he helping...he's finishing up classes, and is graduating in 3 weeks and has a job set up for when he's done
her and her boyfriend are looking for places to live already, she found a couple complexes that have some what low income apartments for rent,she studying for her driving test so she's able to drive when the baby comes and shes getting her GED so she can get a job as soon as the baby turns 6 months old, now to me her cleaning the whole house and doing the dishes that she didnt even use that day seems good enough to buy her clothes when she needs them when her belly gets bigger, but to my friend, he expects her to literally do everything, clean the yard, dog and cat poo pretty much...they dont have grass,her doctor told her not to clean any of that stuff and she had to give her pet rat away because her doctor told her to, he expects her to drag 50 pound boxes out of the garage and clean the garage.....i think thats a little to much but thats just me.....
if your teen got pregnant and was doing all the stuff she does would it be a problem to buy her clothes when she needed them or do you expect her to just grow out of everything and not give a shit like my friend?
Asked by Anonymous at 10:46 PM on Mar. 29, 2011 in General Parenting
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