I cant help myself, when we fight I cant handle it. I cant handle confrontation, and some of the stuff he says is too much for me to handle...I dont want to be where I'm not wanted. But he gets pissed off every time I say "fine, I'll leave then" Its really ridiculous but I HATE being here if he's angry, resentful etc...I cant handle that negativity.
I have a hard time trusting him, that he really does love me, want to continue being with me. But I'm so insecure, and the thing I'd hate most is to stay with someone when they dont want me. He's cried before, he's made me promise not to say it anymore...but I dont know how to change the way I feel. Its not like Id have anywhere else to go, my car...but I dont care, I rather live in a shelter or with friends. We've been together for 7 years, we have 4 children.
What can I do to change my way of thinking because it hurts him.
Answer by SalemWitchChild at 6:42 AM on Mar. 30, 2011
Answer by PrettyBaby24 at 6:46 AM on Mar. 30, 2011
Answer by SalemWitchChild at 6:57 AM on Mar. 30, 2011
Answer by wendythewriter at 6:59 AM on Mar. 30, 2011
It sounds to me like HE is the one starting with the attitude. Maybe a more in depth conversation about bills/finances would be called for? My husband does all of the bills and it's taken me years to except that there is always only one set of moneys that have to go so far. Finances are hard to understand for some, me included.
Answer by MrsHouston47302 at 8:03 AM on Mar. 30, 2011
Answer by JenzAmomOf2 at 8:07 AM on Mar. 30, 2011
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