Am I really asking too much from him!?
Hubby got a new job making GOOD money, but I knew our biggest issue would be TIME. You see, the new job is an hour away, so he spend two hours a day commuting back and forth. I no longer see him in the mornings like I used to, and he gets home an hour later than he used to. By the time we are done eating dinner and clean up, it is only an hour until our boys' bedtime, and only a couple hours before I go to bed. He is trying to start his own business on the side as well (which he isn't making money off of yet), so he spends almost every evening in his office working on things.
He thinks spending a few hours on Saturday with the boys, and a couple hours with me on Sunday is sufficient. Am I asking too much to have more time than that with him? I don't even get to talk to him on the phone anymore during the days...he's always too busy when I call him, he NEVER calls me, and IF he does call me when he's on his way home, it's just to say "I'll see you when I get home." I feel like I'm losing my husband so that he can have this job that pays a lot. I would much rather have him back and us lose this extra money! I miss him! I need more time with him than I am getting! Of course, he can't understand this because he thinks we get enough time together.
Ugh, this sucks....my heart hurts.
Answer by Weldo1983 at 11:06 AM on Mar. 30, 2011
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