My mom has 4 girls. The oldest is happily married w difficulties getting pregnant, but w careful planning & doctors help her prayers to b pregnant finally came true (14 wks). I have always been single, never had an urge for having my own child but God gave me the same blessing (16 wks). Then we find out my little sister is 7 weeks pregnant. My oldest sister is so angry w me cause I can't grasp my blessing. I'm single, my boyfriend was abusive, so I left 2 months ago. Soon after got fired from my job of 5 years. Got in a car accident, lost my vehicle. I wish she'd help me but I don't want to stress her out. I understand where she's coming from, but that's not my life.
My little sister & her boyfriend are overjoyed. They're really good to each other. They're both stay-at-home mothers. I really want to love this experience but I feel my mind is stressed, sad, envious. I love my growing belly but I'm so used to my single crazy life. What do I do to open my eyes/mind to what's going on? To embrace this experience.
Answer by Ethans_Ma at 7:20 PM on Mar. 30, 2011
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Answer by meandrphoto at 3:32 PM on Mar. 30, 2011
Being a single mom is really scary. You have to overcome all the bad stuff that happened to you that lead to you raising your little angle by yourself. Now you have to be mom and dad... thats why you are so worried. It makes it harder for you then both of your sisters, but your baby needs you. He/she couldn't count on his dad. It is hard and under appreciated but worth it.
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