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He says he's having a hard time staying happy today......

I guess DH is having a hard day today....first something is wrong with the water something or other in the car and it keeps over heating, he said that might be about $300 to fix and unless we get a payday loan we're not going to have it for another month or so....then something happened at work today that's got him upset although I'm not sure what it was cause he was texting me and he's one of those people who shouldnt be allowed to text....he makes up his own abbreviations and he never makes complete sense lol.

So I text him a little while ago just asking how his day is going and he texts back that he's having a hard time staying happy....this is the weirdest thing in the world for him to say because he's like the happiest guy in the world most of the time....What should I do to try and cheer him up when he gets home? Sex is kind of out of the question cause his libido goes WAY down when he's upset or stressed. Any suggestions on how to bring the smile back to my hubby's face?

 
Lucky209

Asked by Lucky209 at 3:52 PM on Mar. 30, 2011 in Relationships

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Answers (5)
  • Make him his favorite dinner make the night about him and dont talk about the problems unless he wants too
    christinahenry

    Answer by christinahenry at 3:55 PM on Mar. 30, 2011

  • Make him a nice dinner,offer him a hot bath and massage. If that doesn't do the trick,tell him you love him and snuggle up with him on the sofa and watch a movie. Just remember this too shall pass.
    thecoffeefairy

    Answer by thecoffeefairy at 4:20 PM on Mar. 30, 2011

  • You know i don't want to sound mean on this but everyone has bad days, you want to make it up to him a nice dinner i guess, but what happens when you have a bad day, does he do something nice for you
    lucky35

    Answer by lucky35 at 4:09 PM on Mar. 30, 2011

  • Have a date night at home... Dinner movie etc... Just take a time out from the stressful day and enjoy the evening.
    Elysium927

    Answer by Elysium927 at 4:36 PM on Mar. 30, 2011

  • make dinner,run his water,,,,,,,,,,,,,
    benitaapplebomb

    Answer by benitaapplebomb at 10:29 PM on Mar. 30, 2011

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