My son's dad doesnt pay child support. I wasnt sure whether or not to even file in the first place as he said he didnt want to be a part of my son's life, but in the end I filed as I am struggling as a single mom. He got very mad when I filed, and threatened me. He hasnt bothered (just like he said) to even check on my son, he tells everyone that I am a bitch that doesnt let him see his son. The truth is he has never tried and based how he treated the baby the last time he did see his son (that I initiated) I am not sure I would even want him anywhere near my baby.
My son and I have a pretty good life, and I have not thought about his dad for a while now. Last week the child support office called to say that since Sam has only made 1 child support payment since Sept (when I was granted the child support order) they were wondering if I am willing to testify in court to go after him. I said yes. Then she called back and said that he made a $20 payment so now she needs to wait a full 3 months with him not making any payments before she can do anything.
Now I am thinking about him, I am mad, and feel full of hate for him. I have heard that he is doing very well with his business (he doesnt file taxes, works for himself for cash) and making a lot of money. Now I feel like being vindictive but I dont know if anything I can do is worth the stress and anxiety I feel when I think about him.
Does anyone have any suggestions for me? Has anyone ever gone through this? Is there anything I can do? I am seriously so upset about this I feel like reporting him to the IRS for never ever paying taxes...but really, what would that do??
Answer by riotgrrl at 4:16 PM on Mar. 30, 2011
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