My husband is super tight with his family...I say up his moms butt..to put it nicely-although he is in complete denial.
We live 30-45 minutes away and see them at least once or twice a week.
Holidays are always a huge fight. My family lives an hour a way and we have to see both on every holiday. (I feel sooo pulled). My parents are very understanding whether we stay 5 minutes or 5 hours..His parents, sister, and brother in law always complain we never stay and get mad...seriously..
Then they always call or e-mail my husband afterwards to say they never see us or we always have to go.. (We also have 2 under 2).
We have to stay on routine. I feel if they weren't so demanding it might be better,but they are super strong willed and completely fed up...
This gets my husband upset saying he feels pulled between us...
What do I do/What do you think of the situation?
Thanks sooooooo much:)
Asked by Anonymous at 1:33 PM on Nov. 28, 2008 in Relationships
Maybe alternate the holidays
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