So I like my sister in law, but right now I am kind of annoyed.
I am pregnant with our first baby, and she has been really excited , which is good because I dont think the rest of his family is too happy about it ( they still judge me on how I use to be ) ...
Anyways we were talking on facebook chat and I asked her what was the matter ( she is usually very talkative) .. I finally got it out of her and she said that her feelings were hurt because I am letting all of my friends call themselves the babys aunts and she said it just kind of hurts because she is technically the only aunt the baby has and it doesnt feel as special since everyone is calling themselves Aunt too .
so that annoyed me and I told her that I have alot of friends and that they are all excited ...so then she said that some of them I hardly ever talk to and didnt come to my babyshower, why would I still let them call themselves aunts and tell everyone that the baby is their neice. ....... Well they are my friends and I happen to have alot of them, and it is up to them if they want to say they are my babys aunt.
Then it made me even madder because she talked to my fiance about it and obviously layed on the guilt because now he is saying that his sister is our babies only aunt and he doesnt even want our child or anyone else to actually think that my friends are related or close or anything ( he doesnt like some of my friends) ...
THIS IS MY BABY SHE JUST NEEDS TO LEARN TO SHARE !!!
Asked by Anonymous at 9:34 PM on Mar. 30, 2011 in Parenting Debate
Answer by zoejains_momma at 9:36 PM on Mar. 30, 2011
Answer by newlife627 at 9:38 PM on Mar. 30, 2011
I thought about this in reverse. What I would feel like if I were her. What I've gotten so far is that I would be quiet, that's not my child but secretly I would laugh because in reality I WOULD BE the childs only aunt, lol. I think it's a silly thing to be mad over.
Answer by MrsHouston47302 at 9:38 PM on Mar. 30, 2011
Answer by amberdawnbarr at 9:40 PM on Mar. 30, 2011
Answer by EdwinsMommy at 9:41 PM on Mar. 30, 2011
Answer by tootoobusy at 9:43 PM on Mar. 30, 2011
Answer by sgr123 at 9:58 PM on Mar. 30, 2011
Answer by bcauseimthemom at 10:00 PM on Mar. 30, 2011
Answer by Eek_a_Geek at 11:59 PM on Mar. 30, 2011