my fiance and I are raising his little brother who has been in foster care most of his life.
he will be 12 on Friday and he thinks his biological Mom is going to call to say happy birthday.
My fiance Zach has talked to him about it, explaining that his Mom is probably not going to call and its not his fault, its just the way she is and has always been.
me and zach have been talking and we thought about calling their mom and asking her to call jonah on his birthday. but theres a few problems... we aren't sure we can find a way to contact her by then since we never know where she is. she might flat out say she wont. she might say she will and then never call. but the biggest thing is if she calls him and he gets all excited about it, and then he'll just be disappointed when he realizes thats all hes going to get, a call on his birthday and she wont do anything to be involved wtih his life, after that call.
he just wants to talk to her so bad, but I don't want him to get his hopes up about a relationship with her.
I just want him to have a good birthday, and not be disappointed all day, waiting for that call.
what should we do :/
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