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Ok, its kind of inverasing, but now that ive had a baby i get kind of dry down there so its not very comfortable and it hurts when i have sex with my husband. What kind of lubricants do you recommend or what can i use as a lubricant? adult content

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Asked by Anonymous at 12:17 AM on Mar. 31, 2011 in Relationships

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  • we use liquid silk

    Answer by Pamarita at 12:19 AM on Mar. 31, 2011

  • KY Jelly

    Answer by dustbunny at 12:26 AM on Mar. 31, 2011

  • Vazoplex

    Answer by dimpsedee34me at 12:27 AM on Mar. 31, 2011

  • "Slippery Stuff" It is a great water basedlubericant. It doesn't get sticky like glycerin based lubes can. It doesn't stain. You can buy it from

    Answer by GrnEyedGrandma at 12:33 AM on Mar. 31, 2011

  • Vaseline water based lubricant. Def nothing oil based. Unhealthy.

    Answer by shynu at 12:49 AM on Mar. 31, 2011

  • KY works great for me. I even buy the generic brand. It's exactly the same thing. Try that before you try the more expensive stuff.

    Answer by Court128 at 1:53 AM on Mar. 31, 2011

  • You can use anything for moisture like vasiline or buy flavor all works

    Answer by dusty1962 at 2:11 AM on Mar. 31, 2011

  • This issue is caused by the drop in estrogen levels after childbirth and it will normalize over time, but it will happen more quickly if you provide your body with the precursors for estrogen, one of which is cholesterol. You don't have to consume a lot of "bad" cholesterol to achieve an effect, providing your body with Omega3 and Omega6 essential fatty acids from salmon, tuna, peanut butter, nuts, seeds and avocado gives your body "good" cholesterol to work with. Increased intake over the course of 4-8 weeks should have a positive effect.

    Answer by Fistandantalus at 7:38 AM on Mar. 31, 2011

  • I just wanted to clarify something. Vaseline is petroleum based, not water based, and it causes erosion of latex rubber. Most condoms , cervical caps and diaphragms are made of latex. KY is glycerin based.


    Answer by GrnEyedGrandma at 8:47 AM on Mar. 31, 2011

  • Do you mean embarrassing? Anyway, just go to the drugstore and pick out a lube. They all work pretty well.

    Answer by KateShesGreat3 at 8:49 AM on Mar. 31, 2011

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