my husband is very negative and it is to the point I don't want to be around him here are some instances where he is negative.
our son makes himself some pizza lunchables and is pretty proud about it...dh asks him if he is going to heat it up in the microwave and our son says no, so dh says "yuck that's gross" I tell dh if our son wants it cold then let him have it and don't complain to him about it.
I open a can of refried beans and dh will say " yuck that looks like dog shit"
he is always judging what we do and putting in some sort of opinion and no matter how kindly I ask him to be nicer and not give his opinion is does not work.
what is behind this negative opinionated behavior? I should also mention he does drink alot and I just have to wonder if the beer hasn't stunted his emotional growth.
another thing is he gets defensive if i point out unfavorable behavior... like I should just go with the flow and accept him and think he is just funny as can be...
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