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Do you sometimes feel like?

you aren't good enough for people and why bother trying to make friends?


Asked by Christmaslver68 at 10:21 AM on Mar. 31, 2011 in Relationships

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Answers (10)
  • Sometimes. Everybody has self-esteem issues at one time or another. You just need to know that you ARE good enough, and definitely worth it :)

    Answer by lovingmy4babies at 12:50 PM on Mar. 31, 2011

  • sure, there are times when every person feels that way for a small moment.

    Answer by zoejains_momma at 10:23 AM on Mar. 31, 2011

  • No. I love myself and usually have the opposite problem. I wonder why wouldnt anyone want to be my friend? Because of that I am also able to look at people and pick and choose who I *want* to be friends with. Alot of times we pick people who just let us down. Just try raising the bar and look at yourself in the mirror and tell yourself you deserve the best. Because you do.

    Answer by gemgem at 10:22 AM on Mar. 31, 2011

  • yep, sure do. I always seem to pick the wrong friends and end up being a dormat because I'm too nice

    Answer by joanie70 at 10:27 AM on Mar. 31, 2011

  • I sometimes feel like I'm too old to bother to make friends because I'm pretty stuck in my ways, but only on a very off day would I consider I'm not good enough to.

    Answer by meooma at 10:28 AM on Mar. 31, 2011

  • No.

    Answer by beeky at 11:42 AM on Mar. 31, 2011

  • No, I don't feel that way. However, many times when I do seem to make a good connection with someone I enjoy and respect, it seems they find something else to do rather than what we were doing together.

    Answer by CoffeeWriter at 11:45 AM on Mar. 31, 2011

  • i can't say i do... if someone feel i'm not good enough to be there friend then to me it wasn't ment to be and move on.. to me i never put myself above others and that may be the reason why i'm so easy to get along with.

    Answer by Lynnsae at 11:57 AM on Mar. 31, 2011

  • Nope. Never. If they feel they are too good for me, then so be it.

    Answer by vbruno at 12:19 PM on Mar. 31, 2011

  • yep almost all the time

    Answer by goobersmom713 at 12:22 PM on Mar. 31, 2011