Ok so i have a roommate, i pay most of the rent and bills she pays what she can pay she is 44 and im 23 she is deaf and uses that as a acuse to do what ever and say what ever......I have recently quit smokeing and i asked her to please not smoke in the house bc of the kids and bc i dont wanna smell it! What does she do! smoke in side the laundry room! Not only that but she refuses to feed her dog dog food, she cooks ground beef and rice for the dog every damn day, we have balry anything in our frige so i went out and bought a few things, i woke up this morning and she is makeing mac and cheese for the damn dog! I just bought that! So later that day her daughter who is 17 comes over to the house (she lives with her aunt bc she cant afford to take care of her) and her daughter lights up a join in my house!!!!! I flipped the fuck out and took the pot from her daughter and threw it out the window, her daughter went off on me calling me a bitch and her mom just sat there! Letting her do what she wants! Last night it was 3am and her daughter dident come back home, tracie my roommate was sleeping so i shut the lights and locked the doors, here she comes at 5 15am knocking to let her in, i ignored her she can learn her lesson and stay out side till i wake up! Her mom should have been up waiting on her she is deaf how she gonna hear her daughter come home if she is sleeping????
Im at a loss on what to do! ive tried talking to her but she does no wrong! I cant leave bc the lease is in my and her name! Please help me come up with some ideas b4 i say somethings i regret! i havent smoked in 4 days and she is pushing me!
Answer by juliness at 4:58 PM on Mar. 31, 2011
Answer by Musicmom80 at 4:59 PM on Mar. 31, 2011
Answer by 8Tinkerboo8 at 4:59 PM on Mar. 31, 2011
Answer by JenzAmomOf2 at 5:06 PM on Mar. 31, 2011
I would have had the girl arrested. I'm sorry, but I would never allow someone to come in my home and smoke pot. Another thing, this is your house. You need to lay down the rules now. Tell she has to start helping with bills and food. If she wants to feed her dog people food, she needs to pay for that herself. If she wants to smoke, she CAN NOT do it in the house. If you find her lighting up in the house you need to throw a fit. You also need to put it in writing, it can hold up in court if necessary. Eventually, she will grow up and help out or she will move out.
Answer by krissyvelazquez at 5:07 PM on Mar. 31, 2011
Answer by 8Tinkerboo8 at 8:32 PM on Mar. 31, 2011