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Advise please!

I'm a mom of five(2boys 3girls). All my kids were delivered by c-section. I'm pregnant right now,with baby no 6. My Doc strongly disapproved, and suggested abortion (for health reasons).my Hubby wants the baby and he told me that he wouldn't pay a dime for the abortion.

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joysweet

Asked by joysweet at 6:18 PM on Mar. 31, 2011 in Pregnancy

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Answers (14)
  • your health or the baby's health? either way, abortion seems wrong.
    febmom007

    Answer by febmom007 at 6:20 PM on Mar. 31, 2011

  • Well what is the health reason? could you die?? if your Doctor advises against it it must be serious.
    sarasmommy777

    Answer by sarasmommy777 at 6:21 PM on Mar. 31, 2011

  • Discuss the options with husband and both come to a conclusion.
    autumn129

    Answer by autumn129 at 6:21 PM on Mar. 31, 2011

  • I dont blame you for not aborting it. ALL life is precious. Im sure the Dr told you his concerns for your life and the baby's. 5 C-sec's already is one more than you should have, now at #6 you really are risking your's and the baby's life. I hope you carry to term and have a healthy baby. At least consider a hysterectomy when they deliver this baby. Cant get preggo again if you have no uterus.
    vbruno

    Answer by vbruno at 6:21 PM on Mar. 31, 2011

  • I'd try to carry it.
    shynu

    Answer by shynu at 6:23 PM on Mar. 31, 2011

  • You can always consider having another doctor's opinion.
    bdflykisses

    Answer by bdflykisses at 6:23 PM on Mar. 31, 2011

  • You have to do what you think is right, and if your husband disagrees, deal with it. As for "he's not paying..." that's bull$#it. It's your money, too.
    SWasson

    Answer by SWasson at 6:24 PM on Mar. 31, 2011

  • I would carry for sure!

    Get a new doctor. You are at risk but you are not the first women to have 6 csections.

    Is VBAC an option
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 6:27 PM on Mar. 31, 2011

  • i would try carrying the baby to term...just my opinion...
    anayasmommy21

    Answer by anayasmommy21 at 6:27 PM on Mar. 31, 2011

  • Did you bring your DH to the doctor so the doctor can talk to him about it.
    louise2

    Answer by louise2 at 6:34 PM on Mar. 31, 2011

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