Why do so many women on this forum publicly bash their husbands? I understand the need to vent, but I don't understand why so many woman get on this board and constantly degrade and badmouth the man they married.. It's always the same, "HE did this" or "HE did that" or "HE is such a jerk".. I very rarely see anyone say "I have a part in this too".. Has it ever occurred to you ladies that maybe your husband wouldn't be such a jerk if you showed them a little respect? Honestly how would you feel if you found out your husband was on a public forum posting about what a bad mother you are, or what a lazy housewife you are, or even what a b*tch you are?
I simply do not understand how a woman can marry a man, promise to love him forever, then publicly compain about what a horrible person he is without ever once taking some of the blame for themselves..
One more thing.. Why do so many women here encourage it? So many women are so eager to jump on here and say "yes your husband is a jerk" or "you should leave the guy".. Hardly anyone asks "what are YOU doing to improve the situation" or "What part do YOU have in this?"..
Why is that? Are you ladies so angry and so unhappy that you simply cannot help fueling their anger?
Whatever happened to support and positive encouragement? Even more important? what ever happened to loving your husband no matter what.. For better OR for worse?
Answer by Lynnsae at 11:22 AM on Apr. 1, 2011
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Answer by Anonymous at 9:42 AM on Apr. 1, 2011
I have no shame in the problems my husband and I have had in the past. However no one will ever "hear" me call him any names or bad mouth him period. And when I talk about how bad our relationship was it's always "us", never just "him". I would definitely not appreciate it if he were to get on a social website and talk about how fucking horrible I am. I understand the need to vent but I prefer to do my venting to him. I'll speak more freely in a private message then I EVER would in questions. Everyone vents differently though, maybe venting about him here makes their relationship a little better. Gives the wife chill time, time to get calmed down.
Answer by MrsHouston47302 at 9:38 AM on Apr. 1, 2011
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