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Would you lend money to a friend or relative?

 
wishbearmom

Asked by wishbearmom at 11:50 AM on Apr. 1, 2011 in Money & Work

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Answers (21)
  • I wouldn't lend it. If I knew they really needed it I would give it to them if I had it. Lending just causes problems.
    JamieLK

    Answer by JamieLK at 12:47 PM on Apr. 1, 2011

  • It would depend on who it is, and how much they want to borrow. If the person is trustworthy and would pay it back, and if I had what they needed, then yes I would.
    MizLee

    Answer by MizLee at 11:54 AM on Apr. 1, 2011

  • If I had it to give and they needed it - yes.
    mompam

    Answer by mompam at 11:56 AM on Apr. 1, 2011

  • It depends. My sisters are good for it . . . it doesn't matter how much, they would set up payment plan, put together a contract, and I would get paid on time. My brother . . . no way, man! He wore out his being able to ask for money long ago. He is irresponsible, and has very severe addiction issues . . . so I cannot offer help to him unless it is in the form of rehab.
    ImaginationMama

    Answer by ImaginationMama at 12:03 PM on Apr. 1, 2011

  • only if I could afford to lose it.
    MrsMWF

    Answer by MrsMWF at 12:37 PM on Apr. 1, 2011

  • Not unless it was really a gift and I didn't expect it back.
    lovingmy4babies

    Answer by lovingmy4babies at 1:31 PM on Apr. 1, 2011

  • I have, and will. I've lent & borrowed, and it's never been an issue. You just have to know who you can & can't trust to pay you back.
    SabrinaMBowen

    Answer by SabrinaMBowen at 9:34 PM on Apr. 1, 2011

  • Not any more...it hurts relationships in the long run
    ochsamom

    Answer by ochsamom at 11:53 AM on Apr. 1, 2011

  • Nope. NEVER EVER! Thats how all the problems start ya know.
    vbruno

    Answer by vbruno at 11:55 AM on Apr. 1, 2011

  • It would depend on who, how much money they needed.

    In my family it's common to borrow from each other. IN the end it's never really paid back but moved around. Like my sister will borrow from me and then I may need to borrow from her so it's even. Same with our mom. It's just us 3 that normally do it I wouldn't EVER give my older brother money if he needed something I would go out and get it if I could.
    It may sound werid but it's how our family works and we've been doing it for years.
    red_head_mommy2

    Answer by red_head_mommy2 at 11:58 AM on Apr. 1, 2011