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How can I tell

I have two kids with this guy we recently broke up a few months ago. Still living together because he doesn't have a job. Anyway I kinda like one of this good friends, and wondering if these signs are signs that he likes me. lol I know sounds like im 12, but im just confused.
1. he told me that he reads my poetry on facebook
2. whenever hes drunk he wants to kiss me
3. when he is over at the house sometimes he just gives me a look
4. says that he wish i didnt have two kids with his best friend.
5. notices me when i am sad and asks why i am quiet.

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Asked by Anonymous at 12:20 PM on Apr. 1, 2011 in Relationships

Answers (9)
  • Yes it sounds like he likes you, but dosnt know how to say it to you.

    Answer by vbruno at 12:23 PM on Apr. 1, 2011

  • He seems very interested, but I dunno seems a little taken back on whether to make a real 1st move.

    Answer by annabelle092810 at 12:23 PM on Apr. 1, 2011

  • Sounds like it to me.

    Answer by Liamsmom09 at 12:24 PM on Apr. 1, 2011

  • Sooooo many fish in the sea....this dude is too close to your other stuff

    Answer by ochsamom at 12:26 PM on Apr. 1, 2011

  • Okay - I'm going to be honest here - no judgments but you asked. You are not in a healthy living position to be considering dating anyone let alone your baby daddy's best friend. Kick baby daddy's broke ass out so you can get on with your life. As for dating your baby daddy's best friend: "When he's drunk he wants to kiss me" - wow sounds like a classy guy, says "he wishes I didn't have two kids with his best friend" - WOW - what a great friend and potential husband for you (I say sarcastically). Sounds like you need to get yourself in a more healthy living position and move on with a mature man who doesn't act like a 14 year old boy reading your poetry on facebook and trying to kiss you when he is drunk. I'm just sayin.........

    Answer by 8Tinkerboo8 at 12:26 PM on Apr. 1, 2011

  • I would say close the door on the ex - baby daddy put this new guy on hold for awhile until you get on w/your life, nobody should be in a rebound relationship not fair to you or to the new bf whoever he happens to be.

    Answer by PatriciaofMN at 12:48 PM on Apr. 1, 2011

  • I think he might feel guilty about it, but yes I think he likes you. He probably feels like if he makes a move he'll be being unloyal to his friend n your ex.

    Answer by jspenny2705 at 1:36 PM on Apr. 1, 2011

  • 1. Maybe he just likes poetry
    2. Everyone wants to kiss everyone when drunk
    3. Maybe he's constipated
    4. Maybe he knows his BF is a jerk and no one should have kids by him
    5. He's sensitive and doesnt want anyone to hurt.

    Just playing devils advocate.
    He may really like you, but dont play games and ask him. Plus if you're looking to get into another relationship, end the one you have first. (sorry, that sounded harsh)

    Answer by MrsDAP at 1:52 PM on Apr. 1, 2011

  • he's very attentive but wait and see before you react.

    Answer by hotchocolatema1 at 4:21 PM on Apr. 1, 2011

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