BF lied to me about something... and while it was major and most may have broken up with him, i decided i wanted to stay and work it out...
But I'm holding so much anger! anytime he leaves my place, i feel like he's leaving me, leaving our relationship. last night, he invited me out- then found out it was a guy's night out.. normally, i wouldnt mind, but i was upset... then i found out one of the guys invited a girl (she was his ride)-- and i got pissed about that. normally, i wouldnt care!
anytime he says anything, i question it--- was there really just the one girl there? was there a bunch of girls and he was just too embarrassed of me to take me out? normally- i dont care/mind. i know he's not embarrassed.. but since that one lie, its been like this! i have so much anger- everything.
I told him that i think we need to take a break. but honestly, i have no idea what that means. what/how will this break help me?! its not even about the trust issue-- its just me being mad about everything.
one of his male friends has a girlfriend who keeps him on lock and chain-- doesnt let him go anywhere or do anything without her... and i feel like i'm turning into her. i've always said that i wouldnt be that type of girl, but i AM now! =(
How do i fix it? fix myself? we dont even live together so when he leaves- he just goes home.. but to me, he's leaving the relationship!
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