Ok so my fil and mil have always had their problems, long before I ever met dh my fil had cheated on mil. He also has quite a past, lies and is just dumb. One would think being almost 60 he would calm down, but he still acts like hes in his 20s. He doesnt work and really never has since I met him in 2004. MIL told him when the kids (my kids) call him he is to drop what hes doing and give them rides, help them etc. I also had no car for awhile so he was to help me too. Honestly its been weeks since we have asked for any help from him. I have a car now because we got our taxes, and my kids are all older and have their own cars.
My mil called me yesterday and said if I needed FIL at all not to call yesterday they were going to a funeral. Normally I would not have thought alot of it. But she has called me several times in the past few weeks telling me similar things. FIL has stopped visiting, coming around and he used to. I think he is up to something. I dont want to "tell" on him but I really think she should know he isnt coming over and spending any sort of time at our house and how we havent seen him in weeks. I feel bad. I mean I think he is probably cheating again. Do I say something? I was thinking just saying "Oh I havent seen him in weeks no worries on us calling" and leaving it at that?
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