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can you love two people?

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Asked by hotchocolatema1 at 4:01 PM on Apr. 1, 2011 in Relationships

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  • sure

    Answer by 8Tinkerboo8 at 4:01 PM on Apr. 1, 2011

  • I love both my kids :)

    Answer by yesmaam at 4:04 PM on Apr. 1, 2011

  • if you love 2 people, you can't FULLY love either..

    Answer by Obi.Ren.Kenobi at 4:05 PM on Apr. 1, 2011

  • Yes but there are many different kinds of love

    Answer by mommy_of_two388 at 4:06 PM on Apr. 1, 2011

  • Yes.

    When we "love" someone we (as humans) generally love aspects of that person. So it's entirely possible to love aspects that are present in 2 different people. Person 1 has_______ aspects that you love......Person 2 has_______aspects that you love as well.

    In most cases when a person "loves" 2 (or different people, it's because one has aspects that we are drawn to/feel we need in a partner (etc) that the other doesn't (and vice a versa). One person never has every single solitary aspect that another looks for in a lifelong mate. The key is not only looking for the person who has the most aspects we want and need, but also look at their other aspects as well. A life long relationship entails accepting and living happily with a person's other aspects as well, not just the specific good/positive ones we needs/want from a partner.

    Answer by pixie_trix at 4:07 PM on Apr. 1, 2011

  • Yes

    Answer by gemgem at 4:08 PM on Apr. 1, 2011

  • no.

    Answer by xLeeAnnex at 4:09 PM on Apr. 1, 2011

  • yes

    Answer by jspenny2705 at 5:01 PM on Apr. 1, 2011

  • It's not really ideal to love 2 people because it puts you in a hard spot and leaves the other two people wondering what's going on. But yes you can love to people.

    Answer by jnb71584 at 5:11 PM on Apr. 1, 2011

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