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Okay I don't get along with my ex and we have a 2month 3week & 6day old son who's really sick and I don't know much about his family's medical history and the doctors keeping asking me ton's of question and without me knowing certain things I can't get the help my son needs but since his biological father wasn't around when he was born for medical safety issues and never was put on the birth certificate since he ran his whinny ass back to his newly knocked up wench (sorry im highly ticked and worried sick about my son) the hospital won't call him to talk to him they are making me and his self centered sorry dead beat excuse for a father won't return any text or message or call I place... What do I do?
I did just message his brother and told him kinda of what's going on and to contact me? But what else should I do? I need this information? I need my baby to get better... any advice would be greatly appreciated


Asked by proudmommy_0811 at 6:36 PM on Apr. 1, 2011 in General Parenting

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Answers (8)
  • I would go to his house, I would contact ALL of his relatives, perhaps they'll know something. Facebook anyone who is related to him in his friends list... There has to be an avenue somewhere. Good luck to you in finding someone. I hope your son gets well soon.

    Answer by kayalouise at 6:40 PM on Apr. 1, 2011

  • i am pretty sure that if all other communication lines have failed, you can always get a lawyer and force him to give you the information. Or there may be another way to get ahold of his or other family members medical history, via the law. Good luck!

    Answer by Tarrar at 6:40 PM on Apr. 1, 2011

  • That's terrible that they wont talk to you to get the vital info that you need. A child's health & well-being are at stake! Are these people totally heartless or what?! If they ignore you I dont know why someone cant call to ask their questions. They may be more cooperative w/ the medical staff. GL I hope your baby gets better soon! *hugs*

    Answer by mrsmom110 at 6:40 PM on Apr. 1, 2011

  • can u contact his mom by phone too??? hope son gets better......

    Answer by kkbird at 6:42 PM on Apr. 1, 2011

  • I currently am chasing him down via DOR for a DNA test since he keeps claiming his son isn't his and then post on his facebook, myspace and his gf's account that he has a biological son with my pictures posted up stating that it's his... isn't that nice he shows him off but doesn't care... I just don't know what more to do

    Comment by proudmommy_0811 (original poster) at 6:42 PM on Apr. 1, 2011

  • if i had his mother's number i would the only number i have is there house line and they hate me already

    Comment by proudmommy_0811 (original poster) at 6:43 PM on Apr. 1, 2011

  • Call his mom she knows everything =)

    Answer by 2love at 7:03 PM on Apr. 1, 2011

  • 2love i would if i knew she wouldn't threaten to call the cops on me

    Comment by proudmommy_0811 (original poster) at 7:09 PM on Apr. 1, 2011