So, as an April Fool's joke, I told DH I was pregnant.. We already have 4 (3 together, and one is his daughter from a previous marriage). He was excited..I of course told him it was an April Fool's joke, but he said he thought it would be cool to have a 5th...
Now, one day down the road, I told him I wouldn't mind adopting... But, right now, our youngest children are 3, 2, and 1. So, right now, I don't want a 5th...How can I tell him this in a "nice" way. My instinct was to say "HELL NO! Not right now!"...He's a great father, and we could afford another child, but this isn't something I want right now, and I most definitely don't want to birthe any more (I mean, if I ever end up pregnant, then yes, I obviously would, but I don't want to PLAN one).
I'm not afraid to talk to him about it, I just don't know how to put it nicely that I don't want another child right now. I tend to be very blunt, and don't want to come across as cold or anything. Ideas?
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My two year old is such a klutz lol. Not a question.
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