I wont bore people with a long post about my mom. Just trust me when I say she has always been a less then stellar mother and I knew this from the time I was a small child. I love her, because she made me the mom I am today. I knew early in childhood everything she did I would do the opposite of when I was a mom.
Every year my dad tries to book a vacation and wants to include me and the grandkids. Its fun, even though we do deal with my mom (grandkids dont get along with her either). Shes usually well behaved when dads around. This is the second year though she has started a fight with us (me, grandkids) just before we book our vacation time. I strongly believe she doesnt want us to come. She is insanely selfish and if she thinks she can use $100 my dad MIGHT spend to take the kids to the Aquarium, she will have a tremendous cow to get that $100 for herself. Usually my poor dad just throws her extra money to even it out.
Last night she unfriended me on FB LOL. I honestly dont know why. She kept my husband as a friend, and the grandkids. Anyway vacation is coming up. My dd (almost 22) said we would plan one with out them and that we dont need them. I know shes right. I dont want to hurt my dads feelings though. Do you think we should just do our own thing and basically "dis" their vacation attempts? Obviously my mom doesnt want us there.
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