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TMI= Sex after a vasectomy... adult content

My dh is... different now. It takes him FOREVER to... finish anything, and his surgery was almost a month ago. Its to the point that I can't last long enough to get him there. :-( Just wondering if anyone else has had to deal with it. :-( NOT what I was expecting for the after. He has a VERY high sex drive so its a never ending thing now. ugh.

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Asked by Regina_Falange at 5:08 PM on Apr. 2, 2011 in Relationships

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  • Lucky duck!!! LOL My man had that problem he could not finish but he hadn't had a vasectomy. But then oneday his problem was solved and now he is two pump pete!! Be happy with what you have--LOL

    Answer by Anonymous at 5:12 PM on Apr. 2, 2011

  • See, not happy with it. LOL. I am all for having sex, but I do NOT have a high sex drive and when he wants it 2 times a day or more... 9 times out of 10 I want a "wham bam thank you ma'am" type session. Not where it lasts for around 1 hr 30-45 mins each time. Just not my thing.

    Comment by Regina_Falange (original poster) at 5:17 PM on Apr. 2, 2011

  • no did not have this issues...he had a vasectomy like 3 years ago.

    Answer by Anonymous at 5:18 PM on Apr. 2, 2011

  • Have you mentioned this issue to him? Maybe he's holding it back
    My husband has not had this issue and he had his done in '02

    Answer by butterflyblue19 at 5:22 PM on Apr. 2, 2011

  • I think problems after vasectomies are psychological, maybe something he needs to speak to a therapist about.

    Answer by rhonda111787 at 6:31 PM on Apr. 2, 2011

  • It's only been a month. I'm sure in a couple months he'll be back to normal.

    Answer by marine_wife0520 at 6:33 PM on Apr. 2, 2011

  • *snorts* the thought of my husband in therapy is laughable.

    I asked him and he just shrugged. I sorta kinda think he MAY be holding back b/c he isn't "cleared" yet sperm wise... so even though I am on BC he doesn't want to give it a chance. Ugh. Either way wish it would pass.

    Comment by Regina_Falange (original poster) at 7:21 PM on Apr. 2, 2011

  • No difference in my hubs after he had his.

    I wonder if it's a mental thing with him?

    Answer by Allergic2Stupid at 9:36 PM on Apr. 2, 2011

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