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TMI= Sex after a vasectomy... adult content

My dh is... different now. It takes him FOREVER to... finish anything, and his surgery was almost a month ago. Its to the point that I can't last long enough to get him there. :-( Just wondering if anyone else has had to deal with it. :-( NOT what I was expecting for the after. He has a VERY high sex drive so its a never ending thing now. ugh.

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Regina_Falange

Asked by Regina_Falange at 5:08 PM on Apr. 2, 2011 in Relationships

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  • Lucky duck!!! LOL My man had that problem he could not finish but he hadn't had a vasectomy. But then oneday his problem was solved and now he is two pump pete!! Be happy with what you have--LOL
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 5:12 PM on Apr. 2, 2011

  • See, not happy with it. LOL. I am all for having sex, but I do NOT have a high sex drive and when he wants it 2 times a day or more... 9 times out of 10 I want a "wham bam thank you ma'am" type session. Not where it lasts for around 1 hr 30-45 mins each time. Just not my thing.
    Regina_Falange

    Comment by Regina_Falange (original poster) at 5:17 PM on Apr. 2, 2011

  • no did not have this issues...he had a vasectomy like 3 years ago.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 5:18 PM on Apr. 2, 2011

  • Have you mentioned this issue to him? Maybe he's holding it back
    My husband has not had this issue and he had his done in '02
    butterflyblue19

    Answer by butterflyblue19 at 5:22 PM on Apr. 2, 2011

  • I think problems after vasectomies are psychological, maybe something he needs to speak to a therapist about.
    rhonda111787

    Answer by rhonda111787 at 6:31 PM on Apr. 2, 2011

  • It's only been a month. I'm sure in a couple months he'll be back to normal.
    marine_wife0520

    Answer by marine_wife0520 at 6:33 PM on Apr. 2, 2011

  • *snorts* the thought of my husband in therapy is laughable.

    I asked him and he just shrugged. I sorta kinda think he MAY be holding back b/c he isn't "cleared" yet sperm wise... so even though I am on BC he doesn't want to give it a chance. Ugh. Either way wish it would pass.
    Regina_Falange

    Comment by Regina_Falange (original poster) at 7:21 PM on Apr. 2, 2011

  • No difference in my hubs after he had his.

    I wonder if it's a mental thing with him?
    Allergic2Stupid

    Answer by Allergic2Stupid at 9:36 PM on Apr. 2, 2011

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